Having attachment issues is probably one of the most painful things you can experience. The awful feeling of seeing someone you are close to sitting next to someone else, or talking to someone you don’t know. The thoughts that rush through your mind and the butterflies in your stomach, causing you to feel sick; the jealousy which rises up, even though you try so hard to swallow it.
This can scare off so many people and leave you wounded as you watch them leave. The trust you place in one person is crippling and to know that they have buckled under the weight, confirms all your fears that no one can get close to you or be with you.
Lying awake at night, running through all your conversations of the day and wondering if you could have said something different; something to make them stay.
When you find someone who shares the same experiences, is like finding the light in the suffocating darkness. Someone who understands you, and places as much of their being onto you, as you do on them. The bond created is unbreakable and nothing will keep you apart; you are both linked for life.
This kind of attachment can be fatal: if one of you leaves, you will be crippled, struck down to the floor for eternity. Your trust will be shattered and everyone fades to grey.
Relationships are for ever and a smile means so much more than it would to ‘normal’ people.
This can scare off so many people and leave you wounded as you watch them leave. The trust you place in one person is crippling and to know that they have buckled under the weight, confirms all your fears that no one can get close to you or be with you.
Lying awake at night, running through all your conversations of the day and wondering if you could have said something different; something to make them stay.
When you find someone who shares the same experiences, is like finding the light in the suffocating darkness. Someone who understands you, and places as much of their being onto you, as you do on them. The bond created is unbreakable and nothing will keep you apart; you are both linked for life.
This kind of attachment can be fatal: if one of you leaves, you will be crippled, struck down to the floor for eternity. Your trust will be shattered and everyone fades to grey.
Relationships are for ever and a smile means so much more than it would to ‘normal’ people.
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