The people who get close to someone, then leave them hanging are the worst. They draw you in, make you believe you’re special, worth something, then drop you and leave. These people thrive on the thrill of having people close to them and having the power to control them. This will end now. Whoever does this will eventually be taught a lesson. This is not funny and it is not clever. People who suffer with attachment issues will understand when I say that this feels absolutely awful.
The feeling of being close to someone one day, then have them avoiding you the next, is excruciatingly painful: you sit there looking across the room at them with someone else and run through all of the conversations you have held with them and blame yourself. You try so hard to win them back, but the whole time you know that you are fighting a losing battle. That person has used you and now has no other use for you. They have taken your secrets and moved on without offering you a way out. This isolation is the most confusing and painful.
This ‘fun’ to them, is torture to us and causes us mental scars that last long after they have forgotten about us.
You draw back once you have realised that you are no longer important and they somehow use this to justify their own actions against you. This is done to protect their own backs and make them look like they are defending themselves. Consequently, this leaves you with a mass of confusion and hurt floating through your body whenever you see them.
If this has happened to you, remember, they are not worth any of your time or thoughts. They made their mistake when they decided to drop you with no warning. You just need to ignore them completely, and find someone else who won’t drop you once you have opened up to them.
I know from experience, that this can be the hardest thing to do, but stick with it. I understand that when it happens, your trust and confidence is knocked, but get back up. Don’t give them the power to knock you over. Use your time to do something else which will make you feel rewarded afterwards. Most importantly, move on.
The feeling of being close to someone one day, then have them avoiding you the next, is excruciatingly painful: you sit there looking across the room at them with someone else and run through all of the conversations you have held with them and blame yourself. You try so hard to win them back, but the whole time you know that you are fighting a losing battle. That person has used you and now has no other use for you. They have taken your secrets and moved on without offering you a way out. This isolation is the most confusing and painful.
This ‘fun’ to them, is torture to us and causes us mental scars that last long after they have forgotten about us.
You draw back once you have realised that you are no longer important and they somehow use this to justify their own actions against you. This is done to protect their own backs and make them look like they are defending themselves. Consequently, this leaves you with a mass of confusion and hurt floating through your body whenever you see them.
If this has happened to you, remember, they are not worth any of your time or thoughts. They made their mistake when they decided to drop you with no warning. You just need to ignore them completely, and find someone else who won’t drop you once you have opened up to them.
I know from experience, that this can be the hardest thing to do, but stick with it. I understand that when it happens, your trust and confidence is knocked, but get back up. Don’t give them the power to knock you over. Use your time to do something else which will make you feel rewarded afterwards. Most importantly, move on.
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